LOVE-INIT IN LONDON DELIVERING ADULT TOYS UK WIDE

It is the feeling of new sensations, experiencing orgasms and new ways to play with a partner.

Adult Sex Toys can vibrate or have forms of built in movements that causes sensations to the body.

The guaranteed movement or vibration experienced from using Adult Toys can allow you to experiment with other aspects of pleasure. Consider deep breathing instead of the typical holding of breath leading up to orgasm or edging, coming to the brink of orgasm repeatedly. Its about not having to think whether your hand or that of your partner is about to change the movement or applying or releasing pressure. The only other thing to make sure of is your toys not running out of energy – make sure you’ve charged up toys to hand.

Sex toys can take pressure off a partner (or you) to be physically able to perform, and allow another the enjoying of pleasure.

Browse through the Love-Init Website to find toys for all genitals and discover couples toys too.

If your physical flexibility, body size or shape, or disability restricts your access to your own genitals, then sex toys can give you that access. Sex toys with long handles for example.

App-controlled sex toys allows couples separated by distance to give each other physical pleasure.

The materials used in sex toys found on the Love-Init website are generally not subject to the same testing as materials used for medical purposes. Wording on some manufacturers description or packaging may get around requirements by listing the items as ‘novelty items’. You will find descriptions within brand products on the site showing the manufacturer will have taken concerns such as phthalates in plastic into account and mention the use of body-safe, medical-grade materials.

Common sense care includes washing toys after use according to manufacturer’s instructions. Store your adult toys somewhere clean. Pay attention to instructions about what types of lube are safe for the toy material – for example oil-based lubes may degrade some plastics.

Common sense when using them in the manner and in the orifice they are designed for is important. An example is only insert toys designed for anal play, with a flared base (so they can’t get ‘lost’ internally), into the anus.

If long sessions with an intense vibrator to the clitoris are encountered the person may feel numbness for a short time but don’t panic – this should resolve within a few hours.

If you use a sex toy as your only pleasure towards orgasm over a period of months, your body can become accustomed to the type of stimulation typically not easily replicated by the body. It can initially then be hard to orgasm another way. When you realise this you might have reached the point of “have I broken myself?!”. Other sexual scenarios can be someone with a penis can find it difficult to cum with penetrative sex with a partner. This is especially true if you have been single for a while and masturbating a lot – the grip and speed of the hand, which you have become used to, is so different.

But you are not addicted! It can take a period of time towards readjustment if you want re-learn how to cum another way. Take orgasm away as a goal and instead just enjoy giving yourself pleasurable sensations, without your toy. It is tempting to reach for what your brain wants the chemical hit of an orgasm. Your brain knows it can get it quick with the sex toy. But resist! And you will find it doesn’t take too long for you become re-sensitised to other types of touch.

You can then reintroduce your adult sex toy, but less often. Also be aware of the scenario of buying a new favourite toy. It can be tempting to want to use it every time you want to have sex. Try saving it and leaving it out on some occasions so you don’t get desensitised to other stimulation.

It’s easy to make this assumption. However, you may be surprised. It has seldom been heard that there are people finding themselves in this position whose partner wasn’t open to trying something new. Just make sure you introduce the sex toy in the right way. Before you have the conversation, think about how you’d feel if your partner came to you first with the suggestion. When would you want them to ask? What would your concerns be? Your questions? Put yourself in their shoes and take that insight into account when you plan what to say.

Choose the right moment – the best time is probably when you’re both in a sexy frame of mind but not actually having sex. Don’t bring up the subject when your partner feels they have just failed to support you to orgasm! Be careful with the language you use. Make clear this is something for you BOTH to enjoy. You can be excited at finding ways for you both to enjoy new sensations. But just ensure you make that clear.

Toys don’t have to look like genitals. If you are new to sex toys then when choosing your first adult toy go for one that doesn’t have such a shape. With a partner choose together. There are toys for all genders, and couples toys that you will find on the website. You could ask your partner whether they are interested in having a toy of their own! Discuss how the experience can be shared. Decide who will hold/control the toy. Decide when to introduce it into the moment.

Toys are playful tools, not a threat – they can do things another persons body simply cannot do and give you BOTH amazing sensations to experience.

Have a browse of the Love-Init sex toy website as it has lots of choice. Start by doing some general research of the same similar toys we have to offer.

Read their description to see what they bring to the moment. There are toys designed for insertion into the vagina – the traditional idea of sex toys, though not all are phallic-looking these days. Clitoral stimulation toys this includes the new breed of ‘pleasure air technology’ toys, toys which stimulate the vaginal internally and the clitoris at the same time. Then there are our toys for penises, anal toys, and couples sex toys.

• What does your body need and what appeals to you?
• You may want to take into account eco credentials.
• Are the sex toy aids made from an environmentally renewable material?
• Are the parts recyclable?
• Do some toys require power or charging, or have you to buy batteries?
• Is the toy rechargeable?
• Is it mains-powered?

There is no rush with this, take the time to feel comfortable with the idea and take small steps into this exciting world. If you need any help, we are available! All you have to do is contact us and have a chat.